Spilling the Tea: What Today's Findom Scene Can Learn from the OGs 👑

Let's talk history. No, not the boring kind from school. We're diving into the history of Financial Domination (Findom). Like literally every other subculture, Findom has gone through a massive glow-up, especially since the internet and social media took over.

The way things were done back in the day—what we'll call "Old School" Findom—is a whole different vibe from the chaotic scene you might see on Twitter today. By looking back at how the OGs did it, we can learn a ton about power, ethics, and what a real connection looks like.

The Vibe of "Old School" Findom 📜

Before the endless scroll and DMs from strangers, traditional Findom was all about building deep, long-term relationships. Doms focused on creating a dedicated "stable" or squad of subs who were exclusively loyal to them. It was a marathon, not a sprint.

• Building a Real Community: An Old School Dom would often have a core group of 10-15 super-devoted subs who were the foundation of their power. Beyond that, they might have a wider network of 20-50 more casual subs. The goal wasn't just random tributes; it was about building a sustainable and exclusive dynamic that lasted.

• Making it Official 📝: Things were often more formal back then. We're talking consensual "ownership contracts" and sometimes even legally-inspired documents like a Power of Attorney. This wasn't just for show; it was about making the power exchange official and solidifying the sub's commitment in a serious way.

• The Controversial Stuff 😬: Let's be real, not everything from the past ages well. Some Old School practices, like consensual blackmail, were sometimes used to keep a sub in line. This is a HUGE red flag today because we have a much better understanding of consent, safety, and the line between kink and abuse.

• More Than Just Money 🧠: A sub's value wasn't just about their bank account. OGs valued other forms of tribute, too. A sub might be tasked with recruiting new subs for the stable, using their tech skills to build a website, or offering other services that leveled up the Dom's lifestyle and influence.

How Things Have Changed: Then vs. Now 🔄

The core values of Old School Findom were fundamentally different. Back then, Doms looked past superficial stuff. They understood that the real power exchange had nothing to do with a sub's age, looks, race, or religion. It was all about their mindset—their genuine desire to surrender control.

Fast forward to today, and the landscape has shifted. The modern scene can feel way more transactional and, honestly, pretty shallow. Some younger people enter the community thinking Findom is just a quick way to get sexual validation or attention. This completely trivializes the deep psychological dynamic and, worse, opens the door for misunderstanding and exploitation.

The Rise of the "Wannabe Dom" 🚩

Platforms like Twitter have made Findom more visible, but they've also made it easier for fakes to pop up. This has led to a flood of "Wannabe Doms"—people who just want a quick cash grab and have zero interest in the ethics or the art of the dynamic.

• Exploitation is Their Game: These fakes often prey on vulnerable and inexperienced subs, promoting toxic stereotypes and completely ignoring the emotional and psychological side of the power exchange.

• Competition Over Community: The OG era had a stronger sense of community. Now, the anonymity of social media has created a super competitive environment where Doms are constantly fighting over the same subs instead of building something real.

Ethics Are Forever: The Unbreakable Rules ✨

No matter the era, true Findom is built on a solid ethical foundation. These are the rules that never go out of style.

• Don't Ruin Their Life: A responsible Dom ensures their subs aren't spending themselves into debt or financial ruin. The goal is a fulfilling power exchange, not a destructive one.

• It's a Two-Way Street (Kinda): While the power flows one way, the respect goes both ways. The dynamic can't be purely transactional. It needs to be balanced with genuine care and appreciation for the sub.

• Consent is EVERYTHING: Every. Single. Interaction. Must be based on mutual respect, clear communication, and enthusiastic consent. The sub's safety and well-being are always priority #1.

What We Can Learn from the OGs ✍️

The principles of Old School Findom are more relevant than ever. By revisiting these values, both Doms and subs can build way more fulfilling and ethical relationships today.

The key takeaways are simple:

1. Prioritize loyalty and real connections over fleeting, one-off cash grabs.

2. Foster a community of respect, not toxic competition and exploitation.

3. Remember the real essence of the power exchange—it's a complex psychological dynamic that's about so much more than just money.